Wednesday, March 13, 2013

How to Become a More Attractive Man

So you want to learn how to be more attractive to women and get them to chase you. Well then let me tell you that it's not all about the looks and physical appearances (although that helps - a lot!)

Sure, who wouldn't want to look at rock hard abs, six packs, muscled arms, tall and muscular figure, ahem. But to the right woman, it takes more than abs and killer dimples to impress her (but again, that helps a lot!)

Carrying a normal conversation

You need to be able to carry a normal conversation with her, preferably something that doesn't involve leering or staring at her breasts. You can't exactly take her out on a date and be silent the whole time. But you can't bore her to death on your many awards and achievements either.

You need to learn to talk and listen and tell a story with humor and emotions. You need a variety of topics because the better you get at making conversations, the more women will find you fascinating and would want to spend more time with you.

Confidence

One of the most important things you need to be more attractive to women is to have confidence. One example is this whole "alpha male" attitude or take care behavior. No need to be bossy but women do like a man who can take charge and knows what he wants. It means that she can rely on you and you can take care of others as well as yourself.

In other words, you know your worth and that you're worthy of attention. You're strong and independent and you're well capable of protecting yourself and your partner. It's a magnetic behavior that can make women have goosebumps and make her feel all tingly inside. Imagine having a strong, confident man beside who would keep her safe.

Sense of humor

A sense of humor is a must if you want to be more attractive to women. This is especially important in communication. Again, you don't want to bore her or make her think that you're a stiff. Humor and laughter can help you bond with someone, in this case, your date.

She would want to spend time with you if you can make her laugh because you know how to make her feel good. You can socially connect with her and you can make her feel close to you. You can break the ice between the two of you and soon she would become more open and maybe even learn to trust you.

Get a life and find a passion

If you want to be interesting then you need to do something interesting. You can't impress her and say you're interesting if you spend most of your time being a couch potato. Go do something interesting, try some new things, new hobbies, or find a passion.

If you have something you're passionate about then you would have direction in your life. Maybe you really love sports or your career or you're into traveling. Traveling would be good because a lot of people like to travel. And if you have that special someone in your life, then you can take her with you and it will be even more fun!

Bottom line is, being attractive to women is not all about looks. It's about being you and being the right kind of man for her. You can have the rock hard abs but if you can't carry a conversation, or have a sense of humor, or have passion or confidence, then you're nothing more than eye candy to her.

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