Nowadays, asking women out is not as complicated as say ten or twenty years ago. While some men may find it difficult to pull off the perfect night for their perfect women, most would say that starting with the basics help. So in order to help you, here are the answers to those questions of how to date women.
KISS
Do the KISS. But no, this is not the actual kiss that I'm referring to, because KISS stands for as Keep It Short and Sweet. This refers to how you will ask women to go out with them, of course. Dispense with the theatrics, say it outright and say it like you mean it.
Be on time
Make sure to be on time, or at least ten to fifteen minutes early. Women appreciate it when men can't seem to wait to be with them and there is no worst way to start a date than to be coming in late--rushing and sweating like you've just ran twelve blocks in the middle of a hot summer day. Remember, you did the asking so you owe it to her to be there before she does.
Dress the right way
Wear something nice and presentable. It's always been said that women know more than men as far as how to date women are concerned and are more particular with what they wear, whether they're going to the movies or a royal soiree, they put as much thought into their clothes as much as their shoes, bag, makeup and even those tiny lace things underneath. Of course, as in everything, there is no other way to impress a lady than by dressing appropriately.
Research
Do your research and act on it, as if your life depends on it. That may be a bit over dramatic but whether it's a casual bowling night with both your friends or an intimate dinner for two at a posh restaurant, make sure it's something both of you will enjoy. Group dating is also a good idea, for it removes any awkwardness that you will feel with each other, especially if this is just your first meeting.
Turn off your mobile devices
Go primitive and turn off anything that beeps, rings or rattles loudly. Interruptions, just when you two are getting to know each other, or worse just when she is warming up to you are quite annoying not to mention rude so make sure that before you walk in, your phone is set on mute. Women are like business prospects, you have to show you're something worth the risk you get them to agree to invest in you and whatever assets you think you may have.
Be polite
Don't forget the magic words - and I don't mean the L word. Always say please, thank you, or you're welcome and be polite with some other people, too, like the waiter, the cab driver, and even with the girl that is flirting on you. Do not be rude to anyone, because women cannot stand these kinds of men, and it will just make them feel like you are uneducated.
Last but not the least is the golden rule in the modern world's book of how to date women - relax, smile and pay. And finally, the most important things to take note when it comes on how to date women, is to relax, smile and pay for the bill. And when you do, do it well whether it's the bill or the attention that the woman deserves. Remember again, you did the asking and so you owe it to the dear girl to show your appreciation by making sure she has a lovely time, even if you don't.
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