A lot of guys need help in learning the best way to flirt with a girl, because frankly, they are missing a lot of opportunities that are right under their nose.
Guys can be Oblivious to a Girl's Advances
Imagine that you are standing in line at the supermarket and a nice looking girl is ahead of you. She turns around and asks you some question about an item she is holding in her hand. The conversation keeps going while you stand in line, until she turns around to pay for her groceries, says goodbye and walks away. Most guys would just think of this little conversation as just one more random encounter. What a lot of guys don't realize is that this girl was actually flirting in her own way. She was trying to tell him she found him interesting and attractive without coming out and saying it. She left the store feeling disappointed because the guy did not pick up on her signals and keep the conversation going longer. Women do these kinds of little interactions all the time but the guys don't pick up on it. Let us take a closer look at what goes on and hopefully a few people will actually clue in.
Society's Rules on Relationships
Most people have it drilled into them from early years that in our society it is the man who chases the girl. He is supposed to choose which girl he wants and then he is supposed to approach her and chase her. The girl is supposed to have the job of being passive and waiting and waiting for some guy to take an interest in her. So how does a girl let a man know she finds him attractive? If she is like most women she is going to be very subtle about this. She does not want to seem pushy and she does not want to be shot down. Even the most gorgeous women can be shy about letting a guy know she likes him.
If a girl already likes you, watch out for signs like playful touching and hitting you. She will also do things like giggle and play with her hair. She will start to act much more feminine if she is actually attracted to you.
Picking up on the Signals
An inexperienced guy might notice these flirtatious behaviors, or he might not realize what they mean. You have to start being aware of them and you have to be willing to believe that this is the way most girls will signal you that they like you. It is usually going to be very subtle. Do not worry about how to impress a girl. Why not just assume that she is attracted and go with the flow. If she has touched you playfully, she will probably like it if you touch her playfully.
Men and women have been flirting with each other for thousands of years. If you have been too shy to start flirting, you need to start practicing right now.
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