Why Do My Relationships With Guys Always End Up Being Messed? Here Are the Reasons Why

Some women are relationship disasters. If you see that you are becoming one and cannot hold on to any relationship then you need to get to work to identify why that is happening. Here are a few reasons because of which you could be messing up your relationships with men.

Being too controlling
Any man hates being controlled. If you are one of those women who tend to control a man and tries to boss over him and dominate him then he is not going to be around for long. While he will accept your behavior in the beginning as days pass you will suffocate him in the relationship and he will want out.

Being a clingy, needy woman
A man wants his woman to be emotionally mature. If you are one of those emotionally cripple women who are needy and clingy at all times then your man will lose interest in you very soon. In fact you will frustrate a man out of the relationship with you.

Being a jealous person
A little bit of jealousy is natural in any relationship. But if it gets out of control then a man feels too tied down. It also makes him feel like he is not trusted and that is not a good feeling. By being a jealous untrusting woman you are driving the men away from your life. It also reflects your own innate insecurity.

Flirting with others, especially in your man's presence
When you are trying to woo a man it is ok to flirt with him. But if you flirt with other men despite having a man in your life and do so in front of him then you will come across as a cheap and easy woman. Men also find this disrespectful and hence leave such relationships.

Talking about commitment too soon
A man will run a mile if you talk too soon about commitment. If you have been speaking of the future with your man and you have hardly just started seeing each other then your man will run.

Making fun of your man all the time
Being witty is something that all men like but making him the butt of all your jokes is something that will not go down too well with him. Have fun with him and not at his expense.

Fighting a lot
A woman who fights a lot comes across as a nag. And a nag is one who no one wants to be with for long. In this case you are not leaving your man with any other option but to leave you because of the unpleasantness that you create.

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