The dating arena is a minefield and you have to be very careful and calculative to make sure you are not blown away. Not only do you have to manipulate individuals you also have to calibrate your approach in such a way that they fetch you the highest return on investment. Instead of chasing guys it is much more beneficial if you make them run behind you. Don't know how? Here are a few ways you can do that.
Premium on your attention
Don't get carried away by guys that hang around you or the other girls. Guys like to ogle at pretty things and treat these guys as no different. To up your value you have to not give them any attention. Soon enough the guy, you like, from that group will start seeing you as the prize and will begin giving you more attention. However, keep him at an arms length initially.
Look great! Always
Another thing that you have to ensure is that you are always dressed well and look fresh. As a young woman you do need to take care of your skin, hair and your figure. Only when you begin to turn out well dressed will the guy start considering you girlfriend material.
Be interesting company
Prove that you are interesting company to the guy. When you are surrounded by friends and admirers he will know that you have some inherent qualities that attract so many people to you. Having a large circle of friends will surely help your cause.
Laugh and be merry
Whenever you feel that you are not feeling well or feeling depressed then don't venture out. People and especially the guy that has caught your fancy should always see you as a happy and cheerful person.
Be approachable
For him to run after you, you have to be approachable and that will happen only when you appear friendly. Smile at him and others and stop by to greet and meet casual acquaintances. This will encourage him to approach you as he knows that his advances will not be stonewalled.
Flirt with men
To keep the guy on tenterhooks you will have to flirt casually with men and have fun with them in his presence. He should know that you will not there for him all the time and if he doesn't make a move you will be gone forever.
Remain mysterious
He will approach you and when he does that make sure you encourage his advances and not give any sort of negative message. He will be thrilled that his efforts are paying off. However, don't become too pally and retain an air of mystery. This will guarantee that he chases and woos you till he knows you fully well.
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