If He Just Playing With Me? 7 Sure Fire Ways to Know If You Are Stuck With a Player Personality

One thing that all young women want to guard against is men that are players. Players don't display any unique characteristics and behave just as normal guys. It is their intention that makes the difference. If the girl is smart she will be able to spot a player and drop him like a hot brick before he hurts her emotions and sentiments. Here are some of the things that players do that gives them away.

Scant or no interest in what you do
A player is there for the short term and will leave the moment his purpose is served. In this case the moment he has had his fill, read as sex. He will take little or no interest in what you do and will not feel ashamed about it. This attitude should tell you that he is a player.

Does not plan ahead
He has a very discomfiting style of dating. He never plans a date well ahead of time and it is always a hurriedly put together. The date also always includes sex either at your place or his place or a motel room. Such dates should ring alarm bells in your head immediately.

His disinterest in your friends and family
A guy that is player knows that you are a short term affair and therefore he does not take much interest in your friends and family. He will not be curt with them but his greetings and interest in them will be very superficial and plastic.

Does not appreciate your spontaneity
If you spring a surprise on him and plan a date without consulting him, instead of being thrilled he will show his disappointment and make an excuse to not come. This is because he wants to control the relationship and does not like it when you do that.

Its all about "him"
Everything that he does and plans will be about him. He pays no attention to your needs and does not include you in his short term or long term plans. This is because at a subconscious level he knows that you won't be there with him for a long time.

You don't know much about him
If after spending a considerable time with him you still get the feeling that you hardly know him then it means that he is a player. You don't know much about him because he never told you anything more than what was necessary. When you get this feeling you are with a player.

Does not connect emotionally
Whenever you need him the most you find yourself stranded. He does not get emotionally involved with you and does not encourage your emotional involvement in his affairs. This is a sign that he is a player.

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