Monday, November 8, 2010

How to Ask a Guy Out When You Don't Know What to Do? 7 Steps Which Will Help You Right Away

Are you angry with yourself for not making a move towards the guy you have been eyeing all these years? It just takes a step in faith! Here are some marvelous ways in which to ask him out without being afraid or insecure!

Tell yourself that you are worth his attention
It is obvious that you lack self confidence and are intimidated by him all these years. You will have to work on that and try to boost your confidence. Make a list of all your assets and you will be astonished to see how attractive you really are. This will also make you more secure in the knowledge that you are worth his attention.

Plan your move and impress him
Don't bungle things by being impulsive at this stage. You waited so long, so it is okay to take a little time to plan your move. Be careful to look sensational and tantalizing. Getting him to admire you is your priority and once you do that, he will find himself attracted and impressed very easily.

Host a party and invite him
Once he knows you are alive, all you have to do is host an exciting party - a pool party or a barbeque would be just the thing! Make sure you invite him letting him know in a subtle way that you would love him to be there! Once he is in your territory it won't be difficult to attract him.

Get a close friend to arrange a double date!
If you still don't have the courage to ask him out, then you could "get by with a little help from a friend"! Get a friend to engineer a double date! If he is game, then you will have had your heart's desire! Make sure he notices you beforehand and gets curious about you.

Flirt and compliment him first
Men are suckers for compliments and the more you compliment him and praise him - he will begin to like you! If you have not spoken to him earlier, start with a sweet and sexy smile. Bat your lashes at him and make him aware of the fact that you like him. Asking him out will be the next step.

Make him realize that you are exciting and popular
The more aware he gets of your personality and popularity, the more he will want to know you. If you concentrate on getting him interested in you then a time will come when he will want to ask you out! Upgrade your looks, dressing and ooze sexuality.

Ask him in such a way that he cannot refuse!
By this time, you have definitely made an impact on his senses! He is curious, impressed, attracted and interested in you. All you have to do is ask him in a sweet, charming way so that he finds it really hard to refuse - not that he really wants to refuse!



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