How to Make Him Commit When He Isn't Sure of Relationship? Put These Tips Into Action Right Now

You are in a relationship and you are hoping to take it to next level. However, most men are happy with the comfortable relationship and not too keen to make a commitment whereas you want the assurance from him that the relationship is heading in the right direction. Here's how you go about it.

Let the relationship grow
Spend time with each other and let the relationship grow. Take part in activities that you both love and see the bond grow. Concentrate on the fun element in your relationship. When he sees the joy of being in relationship with you, he will not want to let go.

Be yourself
Remember the first time you met, he was attracted to you for the person you are. So don't think of changing yourself and hold on to your values, interests, and opinions. Women often are mistaken into thinking that changing their personality in order to please their boyfriend will make them commit, but they are so wrong.

Show your caring nature
Women have an inborn sensitive and caring nature; don't hesitate to let your partner see the caring and loving side of you. Men want a life partner who loves them and supports them. Show that your love is unconditional and that he can depend on you. Once he is sure of your love for him he will be ready to commit.

Be self-reliant
Show your partner that you are an independent and self-assured women; a woman who has ambition, goals and opinions and who can make her own decisions. Your partner will respect you for this and he will be assured that you capable of managing your life, this makes him more favorable towards commitment.

Don't change him
Tell him that you love him for who he is and do not intend to change him. Men are insecure when it comes to commitment because they think their life will undergo a sea change when they get married. Assure him that you love him and accept him as he is, this will make him more open towards committing.

Meet with friends who are committed
Your commitment-phobic guy has to be convinced that commitment is not a bad deal at all and the best way is to meet with friends who are in such relationship or are happily married. When you both mix with your committed friends he will see that his fears are baseless.

Be patient -don't rush
Make your guy aware of the beautiful relationship you share and then give him his space to think about it. Ultimatums don't work and pushing him into a long term relationship before he is ready is very immature. If you are sure of your feelings then tell him that it would be great to share a lasting committed relationship.

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