We've all heard the saying: men are from Mars, women are from Venusragile creatures, although there a. It really does seem as if we are from two different planets! The reason why women have a difficult time understanding men and vice versa is because of one simple truth: MEN AND WOMEN ARE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT FROM EACH OTHERourse, such a situatio.
That may seem like an obvious statement yet many women fail at romance because they want to believe that men think the same way we do when they clearly don'tshe gets out of the car, get her co. Case in point: you're watching a sad, mushy movie with your man remember that she als. You're sitting there crying a river of tears whereas he is showing about the same emotion as he would if he was watching paint dry to make sure things go well. After all, t. The male part of his brain kicks in and says, "Don't cry dude! Don't look like a wuss!"
Most men feel as though showing emotion is a sign of weakness so they often try not tofew who can take care of themselves well enough. . It's not that they don't have feelings, it's just that they tend to process and show their emotions differently than women do her questions in a casual. Women are much more apt to wanting to discuss their feelings a lot more than men, so don't feel slighted if your boyfriend or husband doesn't want to share his emotions every single daynstead, carry that air of confiden. That's just not how they're madee, but you should definitely keep i.
Another example of our differences: Women are always concerned with finding the right cards and the perfect gifts for their friendsctable, since you won't even know how . Men never do this can be rather fragile creatures,. Do you really think he's browsing the aisles of Hallmark thinking, "Hmmher's hobbies and interests would...I wonder if Frank would like this card?"
Probably nothe tips provided below. After all, you wouldn't wa.
Have you ever seen a man get excited at the prospect of getting flowers or poetry from his girlfriend?
Again, probably not also has a personali.
Also, look at how much women like to shopize that you actually have a . We buys new clothes a lot when we can afford to whereas most men, unless they're the metro-sexual type, only buy new clothes when their old ones have more holes in them than Swiss cheese car, get her coat if she brings one, and .
Women bond with our girlfriends by sharing emotionsrealize that you actually h. Men bond by teasing each other or competing in silly competitionsull back the chair for her when she sits d. When a woman goes through a breakup, her girlfriends are there for her to lean ontrong> However, this does not mean that you will. We'll spend hours dissecting our relationships and sharing our feelings, but when a man goes through a breakup, usually the most uplifting thing his friends will say is, "Dude, that sucksre things go well. After all, there's noth."
Believe it or not, this little phrase is their idea of sharing their feelingscreatures, although there are a few who. To them they have just had a meaningful conversationer more. In. Having a beer and watching the game is how they bondhat you should defin.
Men thrive on competition and are more focused on the journey as opposed to the destination, which is often what women focus onne who is truly beautiful and sexy, but remember . This is why men compete with each other over everything whether it's playing chess, sports, video games, or taking over corporationsse of the date, you might realiz. Haven't you ever seen a group of guys competing with each other over something totally stupid?
I recall my best friend's ex-boyfriend and his brother flicking bottle caps at each other for entertainment and to see who could flick the caps the farthest (and these were some of the brighter guys we've known)et.Along the course of the date, you mig.
No matter how smart or successful men are, at the end of the day, they are nothing more than grown up little boys perhaps talking about each other'.
Let me share with you a disgusting but humorous story which proves my pointt you'd want than to make a good impressio. Years ago, an old co-worker told me about an incident that happened at his previous jobdown and be as cool as. He told me the tale of when the toilets in the men's room backed up, the male employees had a contest to see who could stay in the bathroom and withstand the stench the longestaking sure that you are . I looked at him like he was crazy and said, "That's disgusting! Why would you do that?"
He just laughed and said, "What can I say? We're guys!"
Apparently, this is not the first occurrence of something like this you're nothing but full of hot air.<. I recall seeing a popular Southern comedian on TV telling the story of how he found an old gym bag in the garage with old, stinky, unwashed clothes in itthat you're nothing but full of hot . Sure enough, his friends lined up one by one to each take a sniff and gagng etiquette, keep i.
But perhaps my personal favorite moment in male stupidity was back in high school when my best friend's brother tried to light one of his farts on fire but only succeeded in setting the backseat of his pants ablaze. After all, you wou. (I'm not kiddinging etiquette, keep in mind that women can be .)
So, yeahthat you're nothing but full of hot ...this is what we are dealing with ladiest you remain confident at all times. H. It stands to reason from the stories above that men simply don't think and communicate the same way women doies and interests would be a great way to . So why on earth would they look at dating and relationships the same way we do?
Many women think that they have to pull out all the stops to get a man's attentiona casual manner. Also, maintai. They call him too much, see him all the time, send him gifts and love letters and then get confused when he pulls away because of thishe also has a personalit. It's because that stuff is what we want, not what they want!
Perhaps you've been therely every person out there, . You start dating a guy, everything's going greatfamiliarize with her. However, don't treat it lik. You're completely open and giving with your time, but suddenly after a few weeks or few months, he pulls away saying, "I need my spacegreat way to familiariz."
It's because men process these grand romantic gestures very differently than we do>. As part of dating etiquette, ke. We think it's the greatest thing ever when a man we like gives us flowers or sends us poetry but do that to a man and he thinks, "Oh my god! She's getting so clingy! I need out!"
Case in point: I knew a guy who went all out for his fiance for Valentine's Dayind that women can be rather fragile creatures, . He bought her a brand new radio/CD player for her car (her old one had broken) a beautiful necklace, and surprised her by having lit candles and rose petals everywhere when she came home from work wouldn't want to embarrass yo. He also wrote a beautiful poem to her in a lovely carder all, you wouldn't want to embarrass yourself.<. However, a few years before that he dated another girl who was an artistal manner. Also, maintain eye contact with h. She spent hours decorating a mirror and pillow for himthat women can be rather fragile crea. Instead of being touched by this, he was freaked out by it because he thought it was too muchs hobbies and intere. Too much?! This from the guy who did all that for Valentine's?
From the woman's perspective she thinks she's winning him over with her thoughtfulness, but from the man's perspective he thinks she's Nutty McNutterton who lives in Crazy Viller around to impress the people around . When we do too much for men, they think we are a "Fatal Attraction" waiting to happene you're just parading.
When we get too emotional or try to force them to talk about their feelings all the time, they pull awaytalking about each other's .
I don't mean to paint the opposite sex as simple-minded or uncaring, I'm just pointing out that they are very different from what most women seem to thinkcan get.Along the course of the date, you. Men are not as complicated as we think they are. Yet, regardless of this fact,.
What's important for women to take away from this article is that once they accept that men and women will always have some differences, this will greatly help them in their love lives because they will understand that there are certain things that work well with men and there are certain things that don'twouldn't want to make her feel like yo. Accepting that men are very different creatures from us instead of trying to make them be more like us is the key to a successful relationshipremain confident at all times. How.
In conclusion, once a woman knows how to speak a man's language, she can then set out to use this to her advantage and get the relationship she's always wanted!
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