How to Talk to Girls That Want to Talk to You

You may be someone that has a hard time talking to girls. And you may be wondering how to talk to girls that really want to talk to you. How do you know if they want to talk to you and how do you go about talking to them once you find they are interested?

These are tough things to understand if you have no ideas what to do. The good thing is there are more men that do not know how to talk to women than those that do. So after reading this you will be 80% better than the other men around you.

One thing to remember when walking into the room is a good majority of the women will have already spotted you and made a decision whether or not they are going to try and get you to come over and talk to them. This is why it is really important to walk into a room with a confident stride and a calm relaxing approach into any public place.

Don't make quick movements and try not to look around the place like a scared deer. Women pick up on this low confidence body language right away. What you want to do is stay calm and find a choice area to sit, so you can scope out the crowd for someone to talk too.

Once you find a girl, see if she is glancing over at you. She may do a slight hair flip with her head. It is subtle move, but you have to watch for it or you will miss it. If your eyes meet, smile and wave. It sounds like a dumb move, but it gets her wanting you to come over and talk to her. Don't just wave at her, do this to a few other women. You want her to think you have other options.

At this point she may come over to talk to you herself or you can get up and go over to talk to her. She will be much more receptive to you after an uncommon move like a wave. When you first meet her, introduce yourself. Above all, never use a stupid line to break the ice. Instead do this. Introduce yourself and ask her for her option on something.

Women love to give their option. Try to make the question open ended and you will get her talking and you will have to do little more than listen. When you start to feel more comfortable, add in your thoughts and options in the conversation. I would stay away from any topic that has to do with religion, politics or money. Keep it light.

These are a few ways to get to know a girl and how to talk to girls. The more you do it the more you will get used to it and the open-end question will become more like second nature. You will be able to walk up to any girl and have a set of open-ended questions to get the conversation going.

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