Many men have this weird idea that really hurts the results they get when dating Women. This weird idea is that as a man you should take a woman out on many dates, over the course of several weeks (and maybe even months), BEFORE you sleep with her.
The men who think and behave this way, think that they are showing the women who they are dating that they really RESPECT them and don't just want sex.
What's interesting is that women don't see it that way. Now, if you ask a women how many dates she'd like to go on before she has sex with a guy, she probably won't tell you the truth because she'd worry about being labelled "easy" or something worse.
However, I'll share the truth with you and the DATING ADVICE you are about to read could radically IMPROVE your RESULTS WITH WOMEN.
So here's the secret about dating that I promised you...
The second date is the perfect time to try to have sex with a woman for the first time.
Dates three and four are also good, but leave it until date five or more and in my experience - the chances of actually having sex with the woman and starting a physical relationship with her are greatly reduced.
Now let's dig a little deeper and look at how all of this works...
The first date is not a good time to try and sleep with a woman because she will feel like you just "used her for sex" and you probably won't ever hear from her again.
Date five onwards is a bad time because things just get a little WEIRD.
Basically, women start to see you as a FRIEND and not a potential lover or boyfriend if you leave it too long before you have sex with them. Even if she is not thinking it consciously, her sub-conscious mind is starting to think:
"I've been out with this guy five times now and he hasn't tried to have sex with me - clearly we are just meant to be friends"
Okay, so now you know that date one is not a great option and nor is leaving it until date 5, let me tell you a little bit about why dates 2, 3 and 4 are the best times to HAVE SEX with a woman for the first time.
In order for a woman to sleep with you she has to feel two things:
1. ATTRACTION
And...
2. COMFORT
If a woman doesn't feel those two things with you, then (providing she is emotionally healthy)... she will not sleep with you.
Attraction can be built in a few seconds. Seriously, it really can when you know what you are doing.
But, comfort on the other hand - takes a little longer. This explains why dates 2, 3 and 4 are the best times to have sex with a new woman in your life for the first time because it has given you enough time to build attraction and comfort.
So the SECRET that so few men realise is that it is actually better to sleep with a new woman in your life AS SOON AS POSSIBLE (with the exception of the first date).
Then, all you have to do is give her GREAT SEX (including many orgasms) - and you'll have a woman who is keen to see you over and over again. Nice.
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