A woman's best friend has an incredible influence over her social life and her interactions with men. Women constantly give each other advice and opinions regardless of whether they are wanted or unwanted.
Your woman will listen to what her best friend is saying. Whether she likes it or not or agrees with it or not she will take it on at a subconscious level.
When two people enter a new relationship they want nothing more than for their friends and family to get along with their new flame. If they do it is a massive tick in the box. If not it raises all sorts of ugly questions.
The best friend is right up there with a woman's mother in determining the success of a relationship. If you win over her bestie and get the seal of approval you are well on your way to securing your woman's heart.
This becomes easier if you and her best friend naturally get along and you don't have to try and make her like you. It becomes a lot harder if you don't have a natural friendship chemistry and to some degree you have to force the issue.
It is possible for the best friend to form a poor first impression of you but for you to slowly show her over time that you are the goods and for her to do an about turn on her opinion.
Her are some key tips for getting along with your woman's best friend:
Treat Your Woman Well: This is obvious but it needs to be said. The friends will judge you simply on whether you bring out the best in your woman or whether you make her go into her shell. So treat her with respect and bring out the best.
Don't Flirt With Her Friends: You lose respect with the friends if you flirt with them. It is a fine line trying to strike up a natural friendship without flirting, because that is what you do when meeting new women. But if you flirt with them they will think you will cheat regardless of whether or not you would. Don't allow them to form that impression.
Don't Try Too Hard: If things don't gel naturally the biggest mistake you can do is try too hard. She will think what she thinks of you. You cannot control it. Just do the right things to bring her round in time and show her that her first impression was the wrong one.
Step Back And Allow Them To Be Friends: The bestie is used to being number one in your woman's life. She isn't used to being knocked to number two. She will have seen other men come and go. Let her be number one. Don't get in the way of their friendship. Once she warms up to you she will be a lot happier to let you take over the number one spot in your woman's life.
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