Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Attraction And Connection

Attraction is important at ANY stage of a relationship, whether you're single and going on a first date or meeting a man at a coffee shop, or you've been married for years.

Attraction is what a man feels in his heart whenever you enter a room or call him on the phone. He thinks of you and feels safe and thrilled at the same time.

When a man feels attraction for you, he can't help but want to BE AROUND you all the time. When he's away from you too long, he begins to feel that something fundamental is missing and he longs to touch you and be close to you.

Attraction is what makes a man FALL IN LOVE with you - deeply, romantically, helplessly. Attraction compels a man to want to give up his single life, where he lives, his work, other women - just about anything in order to be near you and with you.

But attraction isn't the only factor in why a man will stay devoted and committed to you.

You also need a strong CONNECTION with him. A strong connection means that he can trust you with his feelings. A strong connection means that he understands you and he knows in his heart that you understand him.

When he feels a connection with you as a lover and partner, he is inspired to want to take care of your well being and be tender with your heart.

To him, feeling truly and emotionally connected means that he's not just your friend, but also your life partner and your lover and your confidant.

It does NOT mean he's your "caretaker" or under your care or "management" or someone he feels OBLIGATED to.

That's not a real connection, and if he feels that way about you, then you will have a tumultuous, unstable relationship where he will often get angry, act clueless, or withdraw into his own world more often than not.

This is why, whether you're a single woman who's dating or a woman who's been married for years, you need these two qualities of attraction and connection in order to make any new or long- term relationship actually WORK and THRIVE.

If your love life isn't what you wish it could be because:

-- every man you meet loses interest, stops calling, or changes the way he behaves toward you

-- you feel jealous, obsessive or desperate because the man you're with brings up ALL your insecurities

-- you find yourself always being too "understanding" and therefore feeling numb, angry or resentful most of the time in your relationship

-- you're always fighting, managing misunderstandings or putting up with "the silent treatment" with your man

Then I want to help you immediately with two of my programs that address attraction and connection and help you with BOTH aspects.

My Modern Siren online video program is all about how to create intense attraction between you and a man by using your emotions and genuine feminine qualities to be a "magnet" or a Siren to him.

Modern Siren will show you, step-by-step, how to use your voice, your words, the way you stand and walk, and the "vibe" you put forward to subconsciously trigger that powerful feeling of ATTRACTION in him.

This can be something that you can change in literally MINUTES with a man.

You'll be describing something and telling him about your day, and he won't be able to get you out of his mind for hours, or even DAYS.

He'll think, "What was it about her? She's mesmerizing. I can't wait to see her again." This is the magic of being a "Siren" to a man.

If you're in a relationship or married, it will re-ignite that spark in your man, and he'll suddenly become more affectionate and more attentive. He won't understand why he's suddenly feeling a rekindling of his love for you, but he will - and you'll notice it!

Then, with my Reconnect Your Relationship audio CD program, you'll learn two important things -

-- All the reasons why men withdraw and get distant and what to do about it when this happens

-- How to manage your feelings of anger, jealousy, rage and resentment (ANY negative feelings that come up) by EXPRESSING them in a way that brings you CLOSER and reconnects your relationship stronger than ever.

"Reconnect" is NOT about stuffing down, pretending, using fake words or manipulating a man into feeling "ok" around you!

Reconnect is about how to do less in a relationship, how to step back, and how to let a man step up and feel closer to you in the process.

Reconnect will show you how to let a man make HIMSELF happy by making YOU happy, instead of you focusing so much on him and his needs and complaints.

if you're feeling lonely and almost desperate because you can't attract the right man, or the right man just doesn't seem to want to stick around, I can help.

There are two critical qualities that every relationship needs in order to have a spark and then long-term potential: attraction and connection.

If you're not sure or you don't know how to be so completely irresistible to a man that he drops EVERYTHING to be with you and only you, and then how to inspire him to want to commit and STAY devoted to you forever, then you'll most likely suffer in love the way I did before I discovered this fact.

This is why I want to help you today, by showing you how to use your genuine feminine qualities that will not only help him fall deeply in love with you this Fall, but how to CONNECT with him using words and body language so he'll feel excited and inspired to devote himself to your happiness.

I do this with my two programs, Modern Siren and Reconnect Your Relationship.

From now until September 28th, you can try these two programs together for one special price.

Check it out here:
And that new way of being with men that makes it so that every single moment you spend with a man - whether it's a first meeting, or a first date, or an evening with a man you've been with for months or years - feels great and gets you closer to the relationship you want.

I explain everything in Reconnect Your Relationship.

Reconnect will lift your self-esteem and help you feel strong instead of at the mercy of a man and what he's doing or feeling.

You'll feel in control of your emotions and you'll start to really communicate with him in a way that he'll listen and actually care.

You can see for yourself how Reconnect and Modern Siren are a powerful combination for getting the love you want this Fall, because these two programs will walk you through how to first create powerful attraction, and then feel secure in his love with a strong connection.

This is why for a very short time, I am offering both Modern Siren and Reconnect Your Relationship together for one special price.

In Modern Siren, you'll learn how to close the gap between how a man really sees you and what he wants and hopes you'll be, all by being totally YOURSELF and never compromising who you are.

You'll see actual role-playing exercises with real women who have tough relationship issues, so you can learn what to do and say in some of the most common situations that frustrate you.

Siren is the complete "how-to" guide on how to trigger that craving and longing inside him for you, and how to make him fall in love, not just "care" about you.

And Reconnect will reveal how to create an unbreakable connection between you and a man, no matter how bad your relationship is now, or how flakey or "uncertain" he's acting.



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