So you've found an available cutie that you want to make yours, have you? You long to woo and impress him with your unending charm and unmistakable shine?
Well my friend, I certainly admire your tenacity but first - we must be sure you are aware of the do's and don'ts of approaching your potential lover.
Such as;
- Do be yourself and be genuine. If you stay true to your heart and what you believe in you'll come to rely on that trust through times of heartache and uncertainty, which we all know relationships are rife with.
- Do Not bombard him with question upon question and cling to him like a baby orangutan. You'll send him veering towards the next available exit with that behavior.
- Do smile and be attentive. A lot of women like to chat their own ears off, but if you can learn to listen just as much as you can vocalize, you will open yourself to a whole new world of inspiration by allowing someone else a chance to speak.
- Do Not over-analyze every little thing. Let occurrences happen naturally and don't stress over the little things you cannot control. Just because he forgot to pull your chair out does not make him a jerk, and just because you chose the wrong eye shadow to go with your outfit does not make you any less attractive.
- Do show some courage to make the first move if need be. Men value confidence in their partner as much as they do in themselves, so break out of your shy shell and engage him in conversation, or ask if he'll join you for a dance.
- Do Not let the situation get the best of you by drinking an excess of alcohol or letting someone you thought was sincerely into you, take advantage of your kindness for the wrong reasons. Both of these can kill the mood quicker then you can say cheers and before you know it, your back to being alone.
- Do be appreciative. Men work hard at doing this as well and you can actually help inspire your man for the better with your influence. Say please and thank you when he does something sweet, and really mean it with a sweet smile in return.
- Do Not lead him into unnecessary territory. Save the small talk for later and only reveal information about you that he inquires about or that comes naturally. Be sure not to lead him astray or have him thinking he can get everything he wants either. Make him work for your devotion and leave him guessing about the little things that make you unique.
- Do be sure you let him know how you feel and encourage that he do the same. It doesn't have to get all mushy; but a line here or two that expresses how happy you are when he does something sweet and romantic, will make him care for you that much more!
- Do Not pressure him to do anything he does not wish to do, this includes a follow-up phone call. If he is truly interested in you he will call you back and the two of you can arrange your next rendezvous. If he has no intention of calling or seeing you again, you should accept that realization and move on to greener pastures more worthy of your affection.
A man does not define you nor is needed to complete the life that you live, contrary to what you may believe. A man can and will become your best asset one day, but until that day arrives you need to find your happiness and pleasure with your life as is.
If you have emotional issues that are left unattended, and you bring that baggage with you into a budding relationship, he will sense that and choose whether to leave or stay.
However, if you go into a relationship with your heart and soul in check and your okay with your current fiscal status and social reputation, your man will be in awe of your down-to-earth composure and more willing to stand by your side.
A real man loves a woman who can not only take care of herself but whom also has the ability to make him utterly attracted in the way that she carries herself. You too can make your man swoon with the perfect things to say and the correct body language to initiate.
Teach yourself how to make your man find you irresistible and alluring!
How?
Pay Very Close Attention Here -
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