Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Flirt With Girls - How to Play Mr Nice Guy

You must have heard or even seen that girls fall in love with jerks only. If you think you are not a jerk and you don't stand a chance for being loved by a girl, you are wrong! I have some truly workable and interesting tips for you to win girls. The problem is that most guys don't seem to understand what approach to use. Every girl is different but the approach to win them maybe the same. In this article I will talk about the basic formula that you can use for flirting with the fair sex.

Do You Know the Difference Between Being Nice and Being a Pushover?

Women deserve kind treatment from men. So, be nice, kind and gentle toward them. However, don't mix up being nice with being a pushover. Being nice is good but being a pushover is not acceptable when you want to flirt with a girl. To determine whether you are simply being nice or you are actually being a pushover, here is a little test I designed. Ask the following questions from yourself and honestly answer them:

Are you the kind of guy who jumps at a girl's every beck and call hoping that he would get a chance to go out with her someday?

You cannot even imagine disagreeing with the girl you fancy?

You like to buy things for girls and follow their orders just to make them happy?

Hmmm...well, if your answer to all the above questions was in positive, then I may pronounce you as a pushover. Don't take this as a compliment at all, because this is not helpful when you flirt with girls.

To be very honest, women like men who are masculine enough to take a stand for what they want. You must treat your girl with kindness and love, but don't be over submissive; being assertive will work! If you roll every time she asks you to do something, how would she know that you would stand up for her right if ever there is a situation to handle?

Flirting with girls should not be your only goal

Set your goals to impress girls. Remember, girls will never be impressed solely with the way you love them or express your care and affection toward them. There are other things to work on too. To flirt with girls, you need to have a strong career - establish yourself and stand on your feet with dignity and pride. This is what will attract them toward you. Impress them through your confidence and success at work. If you like any particular girl, don't go on telling her how valueless your life would be without her. In fact, make her believe that her life would be of little value without you. As the old adage goes, 'actions speak louder than words', make your actions speak for your confidence and value.

Flirt with girls and play Mr. nice and confident guy to win their attention! Wishing you all the very best!



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