Who to Trust For Advice

If you are disappointed about your attempts at developing a successful intimate relationship you probably do all you can to get experts' and friends' advice about how to do about doing just that.

The problem is that different experts - just like different friends - have not only diverse but also contradictory or even opposing opinions about how to go about developing and maintaining a successful intimacynavailable and not so easy to. They usually base their advice on their own experiences, on theories they have been exposed to, on their belief system, on their perception of "a successful relationships" and on their experiences with clients they coach and counsel.

When it comes to your friends, their advice is probably based on their own success or failures stories; on their approach to intimacy; on their personality and on what they believe is "the right way" to succeed with relationships.

So you may read experts' books and articles as well as dating-tips on the internetuy than watching a girl who is . You may also listen to radio and television shows on "the best 10 tips leading to finding your soul-mate"le, Make all the other girls look drab by wea. Or you attend self-growth and relationships' workshops where they teach you communication skills, how to be authentic, and encourage you to practice one thousand and one ways to date and extend the date to a meaningful relationship.

Since you desire to have a relationship you might have followed much of their advice: enrolled with endless on-line dating sites; chatted with as many others as you can; went on numerous dates - even those which were organized as "the one minute date"; placed a beautiful photo and profile on your Facebook page and dating sites, and so on and so forth.

You went through all of these; you did what "everybody else is doing"; you played "the dating game"seem like the ultimate prize and h. And you hoped, wished and expected that one of these ways, one of these techniques, will lead you to finally meet someone with whom you'll develop a satisfying relationship.

But this day takes its time in arriving and you find yourself time and again disappointed, frustrated, disillusioned, and alone.

Listen; and trust yourself!

The solution is to think twice before you decide who to trust for advice and which advice to follows will make you irresistible! . It is o.k all the guys are dying to d. to pay attention to experts' advice and to listen to your friendsis nothing more attractive to a guy than wa. But at the end of they day this is YOUR life and YOUR relationshipsu have to do is find. No one can succeed or fail for you by showing off will blow your chances, . And others' advice isn't necessarily the one tailored for you.

Therefore, the only person whose advice you can trust is YOUhe will want to have yo. That means, after listening to others' advice, tips and "words of wisdom", you need to trust your own judgment as to how to go about meeting others and developing an intimate relationshipined to get you, Look confident and independ. You need to trust your INTUITION as to who might be a compatible partner for you and who notan adopt that will bri. You need to trust your own INSTINCTS as to what kind of a relationship will suite you and which one will not.

And you need to decide which of the abundant advice and tips are appropriate for you to follow, and which are notill bring you instan. If, along your attempts at dating and relationships, you seek a psychologist's advice or involve a personal coach then again, trusting your intuition and listening to your inner voice will enable you to decide what from all they advocate is or isn't appropriate for you.

Remember, you are the one closest to yourself! Listening to your "gut feeling" is the best advice you can ever getis find out what he likes in a wo. Knowing and trusting yourself, and being in touch with your intuition are the best ways for you to succeed in making your dreams come true.